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                   I rummaged through my old files, and curated articles looking for anything to read again. Sometimes I like doing that because it refreshes my memory and it provides me with specific and supplementary information I need (aside from google-ing) to support my articles.

And so I chanced up on this folder that was given out to all the delagates from different countries in the Asia Pacific. I was one of the delegates representing the Center where I worked. This handout brought me back to that day when I attended the International Montessori Society workshop couple of years ago.

International Montessori Society Workshop

The workshop was conducted by Lee Havis. Lee Havis was the Executive Director of the IMS. I felt so honored to meet him in person for the first time. I flipped through the pages of the handout when a piece of paper that was not attached to it fell on the floor. I picked it up and read the words printed large and bold that says “An Inspiring True Story”. I have already forgotten about this short story. I can’t even remember If I have read it before when the handouts were given. In short, it doesn’t ring a bell now. I took some minutes to read it and I was very surprised at myself why on earth I haven’t read it then. It is a great read especially for all the teachers like me. Very inspiring indeed.

Handouts:

SO now, I thought I would share the story here – copied as it is from the article. And this I dedicate to all the teachers around the world who strive to make life more meaningful for the children.

The Story goes like this…

“Floor maid at the Tewksbury Institute”

Author: Unknown

Dr. Frank Mayfield was touring Tewksbury Institute when, on his way out, he accidentally collided with an elderly floor maid. To cover the awkward moment Dr. Mayfield started asking questions, “How long have you worked here?” “I’ve worked here almost since the place opened,” the maid replied.

“What can you tell me about the history of this place?” he asked. “I don’t think I can tell you anything, but I could show you something.” With that, she took his hand and led him down to the basement under the oldest section of the building.

She pointed to one of what looked like small prison cells, their iron bars rusted with age, and said, “That’s the cage where they used to keep Annie.” “Who’s Annie?” the doctor asked. “Annie was a young girl who was brought in here because she was incorrigible – which means nobody could do anything with her. She’d bite and scream and throw her food at people.

The doctors and nurses couldn’t even examine her or anything. I’d see them trying with her spitting and scratching at them. I was only a few years younger than her myself and I used to think, ‘I sure would hate to be locked up in a cage like that.’ I wanted to help her, but I didn’t have any idea what I could do. I mean, if the doctors and nurses couldn’t help her, what could someone like me do? “I didn’t know what else to do, so I just baked her some brownies one night after work.

The next day I brought them in. I walked carefully to her cage and said, ‘Annie I baked these brownies just for you. I’ll put them right here on the floor and you can come and get them if you want.’ Then I got out of there just as fast as I could because I was afraid she might throw them at me. But she didn’t. She actually took the brownies and ate them.

“After that, she was just a little bit nicer to me when I was around. And sometimes I’d talk to her. Once, I even got her laughing. One of the nurses noticed this and she told the doctor.

They asked me if I’d help them with Annie. I said I would if I could. So that’s how it came about that every time they wanted to see Annie or examine her, I went into the cage first and explained and calmed her down and held her hand. Which is how they discovered that Annie was almost blind.” After they’d been working with her for about a year – and it was tough sledding with Annie – the Perkins institute for the Blind opened its doors. They were able to help her and she went on to study and became a teacher herself. Annie came back to the Tewksbury Institute to visit, and to see what she could do to help out. At first, the Director didn’t say anything and then he thought about a letter he’d just received.

A man had written to him about his daughter. She was absolutely unruly – almost like an animal. He’d been told she was blind and deaf as well as ‘deranged’ He was at his wit’s end, but he didn’t want to put her in an asylum. So he wrote here to ask if we knew of anyone-any teacher-who would come to his house and work with his daughter. And that is how Annie Sullivan became the lifelong companion of Helen Keller.

When Helen Keller received the Nobel Prize, she was asked who had the greatest impact on her life and she said, “Annie Sullivan.” But Annie said, “No Helen. The woman who had the greatest influence on both our lives was a floor maid at the Tewksbury Institute.”

The End

My Final Words: My personal outlook on this is about this “SIMPLE ACT OF KINDNESS”. We do not know how far simple act of kindness would go. Being Educators, considering the challenges we encounter everyday, it is not a piece of cake to do one simple act of kindness.

It takes a considerable amount of effort and practice. Truth is, it shouldn’t be like that, it should come naturally because of innate humaneness that we have. But one thing I am pretty sure of, if we put this in practice, it can definitely change the world.

Note: I did some little research on this and I actually found a few articles/stories that are the same. You may check them out here. 

 
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Now my husband and I are back in China. The short visit to Kuala Lumpur was indeed a good one. Let me share some details of the trip.

Preview:
I wrote a post on how I previewed our trip here.

 

Highlight of the Trip

December 19. We woke up very early to catch our flight schedule from Changchun to Shanghai. The weather was chilly and cold as usual. Our flight was actually delayed for an hour. The travel time from Changchun to Shanghai was 2 hours and a half, so we arrived in Shanghai at about lunch time. Our next flight was scheduled at 4pm. So we just hang around in the airport for several hours before we checked – in.
We landed at 10pm in Kuala Lumpur at last, after almost like 12 hours from the time we left Changchun. We were totally dead tired and hungry. There were food and drinks served in the aircraft but you know when you are too tired, you wouldn’t be able to appreciate it.

December 20. Breakfast in the veranda by the pool. After what felt like one of the longest and stressful trip I had this year, I began to feel the warm breeze touched my face. Oh god it felt so great! being able to wear just one thin layer of clothing. I felt so light and bold.

After the relaxing breakfast by the pool, we strolled around the city, that, after a year nothing much had changed. It was good that streets and places and shops were still all so familiar and memories were refreshed. We know where to go, where and what to eat.

December 21. My husband booked a premier room and in there, it was inclusive of some previledges i.e. massage, gym access, and access to the premier lounge.
I enjoyed the aromatherapy massage with essential oils. The masseuse was a nice lady in her mid- forties from Thailand.

December 22. My friend, Aisha knew about my visit beforehand. So she planned to invite us to her beautiful _kampong_ style yet modern house. Aisha is Adam’s mom who had been my good friend since I started teaching Adam. We were so excited to see each other after a year and she hoped that we could stay a bit longer. When we came to her house, Adam showed us around and he was so proud of the white Christmas tree they set up in the living room that he decorated. Aisha’s mom, prepared some local Malaysian dish called bihun soup. It was a soup that you mix with spices, herbs, vegetables and other side dishes such as tofu cubes, chicken chunks, rice noodles, or fish ball.

December 23. Christmas Party at Care Speech Language and Therapy Center. From our hotel to the Center, it only takes less than an hour to walk there. So we just arrived on time for the party at 1pm. Most of the kids were there including their parents. They were all having a happy Christmas celebration. I was so pleased and glad to see Anjan, Bijun, Sashimi, Kyra and the other kids. I just felt so happy to see all of them.

That evening, we went to La Bodega. It was our favourite place to eat when my husband and I were still residing in Malaysia. They serve a mexican cuisine there. I arranged to meet my friend Ruzanna. It was difficult to arrange the time to meet because she works full time and our time was limited too. But then, despite of that, we finally blocked in a time. She came over to join us for dinner in La Bodega however, we didn’t have much time because it was already late for us and we needed to go back to the hotel, to catch sleep for tomorrow’s early flight back to China.

December 24. Bye Malaysia, see you again in time.

Reflection

The whole trip though was short, but it wasn’t bad at all. It was stressful I admit, because of waking up so early to catch all the flights, the delays and all that but nonetheless, it was still good. The weather has been very accommodating to us. It never rained during the day so it was perfect strolling by. It rained at night though, that had a cooler evening December breeze for a tropical country.
The whole city was enveloped with Christmas spirit, that you can feel and see. Shopping malls, restaurants, roads and side streets were brightly decorated and lit up with different colourful and sparkling lights and other beautiful and attractive Christmas ornaments. The city was so alive, fanciful but calm. If you can picture that out.

It wasn’t a surprise to me. I have seen 2 Christmases in KL when I was living there. And by far, they celebrate it the way the rest of the world does. It is noted that it is a country wherein the greater percentage of the locals and other residents from other countries are Muslims, but the beautiful thing about this country is that everybody respects the different traditions that these different believers and races have. Because of this, all the major traditions of Indians, Chinese, and Muslims are well and exclusively higlighted.

I had in mind to also try to meet up with 3 of my friends there but later that I knew from Megan that they were not there when I came. Robert and Megan are now back in the US while Jenn was on a holiday trip to India.

Evaluation

I evaluate the trip as 3 in the scale of 1-5

1 – worst
2- bad
3. good
4. Excellent
5. Phenomenal

… because it was short.

 
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Zeeet Zeet, my husband’s phone vibrated. Oberressl. That’s how my husband answers when he doesn’t know the person calling or when someone from work calls him. But this time it was a lady from Ctrip booking service. “This is to inform you that we can’t process your booking transaction because the name that you wrote in our form is too long”. I heard my husband’s loud voice stormed. “What?, that’s the name that I always use and that is the name written in the passport”. As far as I can tell, the lady from the other line insisted that it will not work, which made my husband even more so irritated but then she confirmed that she will try her best and will call again once she settles the issue. So you see, this is just one of the many things we usually have to deal with being in China.
When their conversation was over, he turned to me and said that it was my name that can’t be processed because it was long. Oh great, I know my name is long (and I love it) but I haven’t encountered any booking problems in the past. How is that possible that now she is claiming that it can’t be done?

This reminds of..
When I was in the 2nd grade, I was a lazy tad writing my long name. My handwriting was also big that my name alone already occupies the first lines, I had to use the next lines for my surname. So then (which I thought back then was the smartest thing to do), what I did was I abbreviated my given names and my surname. Not like taking just the first letters but for each name I took the second and the first 3 letters then dot.

Ex. Ma. Ang. Tes. Tan. Easy right? ;-)

Okay before I go off track.…
After a few hours, the lady called and apologized for the minor issue about my name, and confirmed that our booking is confirmed. Yay! Our Malaysia trip is on and we are flying to KL (Kuala Lumpur) on the 19th of December.

It has been a year since I left Malaysia. It is a special place for both of us ( Hubs and I) because it was where our paths crossed. To give you some small details, we both worked there in the past. I worked there for 2 years and my husband, worked there for a year. I think it is a place that will always be in our list to visit if there is a chance to.

As far as my experience living in Malaysia is concerned, I would say it was one of the best times in my life by far.
Its diversed culture made me feel more connected to different types of people in the world. I like the hospitality that this country and its people had shown.
And the best of course, is the tropical weather. Perfect place to escape winter..

I was hoping.…

A warm, clear blue sky! and here’s  what to expect…

Now I am wishing hard for a miracle to happen. Sigh..

Alright, I don’t want to sound all so unhappy about this. Well there are still a lot of reasons to cheer me up. I would be able to see my friends and spend some time with them. I would be able to attend the Christmas party in Carespeech and see the kids who were in my therapy case load before. And oh the parents who have been so dear to me like Aisha, Evelyn, Roslina…

Sashimi, my once lil sweet girl Sashimi! I would see her again. She must have grown so much taller now.

 

 

The lovely Twin Towers standing tall with all pride and beauty.

 

It was one cloudy day when this photo was taken but still the Lovely Kuala Lumpur Twin Towers never cease to amaze me.

 

I would still consider this trip as a “winter escape” at least it would be warmer there. And I’ll be even warmed up by the people whom I missed. :-)

 

 
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Dealing with a child who has Learning Disability is tough and very challenging.
Every day is a new turning point for the teacher, parents and the student.
My experience with children having LDs has brought me into a level where I already found joy in what I do and that already defined me as a teacher.

What is a Learning Disability?

Let us take note that LD is not in any case a kind of illness. It is rather a condition
that could manifest in many ways affecting your child’s cognitive functions, executive functions and academic skills.
When we say cognitive function, it comprises several aspects of cognition such as
thinking and reasoning skills, processing, interpreting, perceiving and understanding information.
While executive functions are comprised with your child’s ability to organize, plan, make decisions, be in control with their emotions and impulsitivity, and reflect on past experience and misktakes.
Moreover, Academic Skills, are skills that your child needs in order to cope in a mainstream classroom environment such, as language, reading, writing, spelling, and math.
Don’t get me wrong, some children may struggle in some areas and usually they overome it in no time and that doesn’t convey a learning disability.
For Children with LD, the signs are always present and the struggle continues on.

Therefore, when your child shows signs of difficulties in several to all areas of learning as stated above, he may have LD and your immediate action is required to address the problems as early as possible. Early intervention is still the best solution to combat LD.

Remember that LD is a lifelong condition, however, given the right individualized education plan, designed by a team of dedicated therapists, teachers, and parents, the impacts of LD will somehow be minimized and hence, help your child ‘improve’ his life skills.

Who are the Professionals to consult?

1. First, talk to your child’s TEACHER in school and gather all informatiom from them. The sad fact is, sometimes classroom teachers are not really well – informed about the manifestations of LD, making them label the child as ‘being lazy’, ‘being slow’, ‘being stubborn’ and so on.

Take note:
Teachers, if you have a child in your classroom showing significant behaviour issues or any learning difficulty related issues, make an appointment with the School Psychologist RIGHT AWAY.

and

Do some research and reading about LD.

2. School Psychologist / Child Psychologist.
They are usually the professionals who can give you concrete feedback about your child’s issues. They are equipped with tools to asses and diagnose.

3. Learning Disability Specialist
LD specialist can provide you with a multitude of helpful knowledge and tips on dealing and coping with LD. They can also design the IEP (Individualized Education Plan) with carefully planned learning techniques and modifications to do and implement with your child.

4. Special Education Teachers
They are also professionals who are knowledgeable and trained enough to carry out teaching strategies with your child. A good special education teacher often coordinates and works hand in hand with other professionals mentioned above to help your child. They must be up – to -date with progress reports, to monitor your child’s capacities.

5. Occupational Therapists
Their knowledge and training are usually brain-based. So their therapy techniques are perfectly designed to improve your child’s physical, mental, sensory, psychosocial, and emotional needs.

6. Other Professionals such as Reading Specialist, Speech and Language Therapists, Guidance Counselor etc.
Once your child has already been diagnosed, you may contact any of them in your
community. All of these professionals may work together as a team to help your child develop all the skills he needs to perform at his best in his lifetime regardless of his condition.

Your Role as Parents

Acceptance is the HARDEST thing to do when waking up in the reality of your child’s LD condition. That is understandable. Every parent wants the best for their child. However, denial is the WORST thing that you can do when faced with this truth. You will impede his chances of having a full and normal life.

Final Note:

Remember that, the time to act is now. You love your child and you want him to have a meaningful life ahead. This is your walk with your child. You will only discover that there is a BIG hope and there are beautiful possibilities waiting when you do it together.

 
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Sometimes we go through some personal issues that we have to deal with and that means we need to take a ‘time off’ from our usual routine. It happened to me just recently. This time, it wasn’t about going on a vacation, trip or any leisure activity.

It was a surgery and blood infection.

A few details of the story:

23rd of October 10am, when I rushed myself to the hospital. Yes, I called the ambulance and told them to come and pick me up at my house because I couldn’t even walk since I was suffering from excruciating pain in my abdomen. I was glad that the response from designated rescuers on that day was very quick. 15 minutes after I made the call, 5 men came with a stretcher. Yes, a stretcher! The first thought in my mind was I would never lay down in there and be carried up by 4 men as if I am being rescued from a burning house. And so, I managed to straighten up and staggered to the ambulance. It was adrenalin rush I suppose and my pride.

In the ambulance:

I was alone in the ambulance with 4 men, one was asking me so many questions in Chinese, that I answered in English, that he retorted back in Chinese, and I tried to answer in Chinese with all the limited knowledge I have that somehow conveyed meaning at last. I had no idea which hospital to go when they asked me, how do I know in the first place? I have never been hospitalized in China before. Finally, they made the decision as to which hospital to take me.

In the First Hospital:

When we reached the hospital, one of the men assisted me and took me directly to the ER, and there again, nurses asked me questions I hardly comprehend, so we tried using actions and body language, it worked! Picture this I was in serious pain doing some jerking, and facial expressions to show them what I mean. So when I told them that I threw up twice in the morning, imagine me doing an action for “throwing – up” while in pain. One assisting nurse helped me out through everything. They put me in a wheelchair and the nurse wheeled me around the hospital to undergo some series of tests. Seriously I had a vague memory of where I was and what was happening. I was already feeling so weak and my body was all consumed by pain that I could no longer think straight.

Fact:

I am scared of IV’s, blood tests, anything that involves a needle piercing through my skin. So imagine how I freaked out everytime they inject me for IV fluids, and to get my blood samples. I cried like a baby with a constipation!

When the results of the tests came out, the attending Physician advised me to ask a friend or a relative to come. Only then I told my husband who was at work to come to the hospital. I have not given any pain reliever or whatsoever to calm me down, which made my husband furious. He just couldn’t take seeing me in such agony. He talked to our Chinese friend if it would be possible for me to get transferred to a better hospital where I’d get immediate medical treatment. He thought the Doctors and nurses were not reliable enough in this critical situation. I thought so too. 6pm when I found myself in a stretcher (this time I was literally lying in a stretcher!) hauled by my husband to the ambulance to transport me to another hospital.

Feeling this moment:

I was completely weak, almost unconscious, sleepy, experiencing severe pain, scared, mad at the Doctors for not doing anything, and worst thirsty and hungry. I have not eaten nor drank anything the whole day.

In the Second Hospital:

I didn’t have much memory of the details here while I was in that condition. Except that time when I realized I was feeling very cold even under the thick covers wrapped on me. Here, I lifted up the blanket covering my face and to my big surprise, I was in the middle of a zebra/pedestrian lane. Cars were honking, and people rushing by. Wait a minute! What happened was, I had to be confined in a ward that is on the other side of the main street so they wheeled me down the busy street. Apparently, the main building didn’t have enough wards for patients and currently they are building extension wards that are not finished yet.

The good thing was.…

When we got settled in our ward, the Doctors and Nurses did immediate tests and gave me something to make me feel better. Even the Head Doctor and the head Nurse came to see me though it was already late. The nurses in duty constantly monitored me throughout the night and the next day they ran one more test that made them conclude: I had to undergo a surgery. I felt so scared. But my husband was there all throughout whispering over and over again “It is going to be okay, I love you so much” these few words gave me enough POWER and STRENGTH to face what will come next.

The next day In the OR. 24th October.

You know what I have in mind when I was already lying down in the operating table? Have you ever seen the movie COMA? or do you watch Grey’s Anatomy?

It was comforting that the surgical team were nice and patient enough to tolerate my whining  After they injected me the anesthesia  I couldn’t remember how long it was before I drifted off to nothingness. 5 seconds maybe? yeah 5 seconds and I felt nothing at all.

What I realized.…

Maybe, when we die, everything will close behind us. Everything. Memories, loved ones, experiences, feelings, emotions…everything. If I died that moment in the OR, there was nothing at all. That’s how important it is to cherish life, and make the best out of it. We only have one life. JUST ONE. For every breathe, for every heartbeat, it sustains us. There is just a very thin line between life and death.

When I woke up…

I heard someone calling my name “Wake up Angel” and felt gentle pats on my face. It felt like it was only 5 minutes long I had been unconscious. So my first question was “is it over?, where am I?” and I tried to roll over my eyes to look for my husband. And there he was right in front of me. That cued me that I am now safe and sound.

What I learnt from this experience:

1. We only have one life, cherish and take care of it.

2. Make it a priority in our calendar to go and visit the Doctor and go for full body check – up regularly.

3. Practice eating on time (for breakfast, lunch and dinner) and keep a healthy diet.

4. Loving words from people we love can really uplift spirit and gut and strength, say it constantly and listen to it more.

5. Know and trust our MD.

6. IV doesn’t really hurt.

7. Equipped and educate ourself with knowledge concerning Health. As the old saying goes ” An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure”.

Recuperating…

It has already been a month after that horrible experience I had, My husband and I are thankful that I am now completely okay and there are no complications involved. My priority right now is to focus on getting completely well, and to gain my strength again. I have already finished the course of my oral anti-biotic intake and IV’s (for blood infection that happened a week after my surgery) and now will undergo a physiotherapy as my Doctor advised.

Now I am back in my usual writing routine after a month. Thanks everyone for your constant visit on my blog though I have not updated in a while due to what happened.

 
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“Let us unite, seven billion strong, in the name of the global common good.”UN Secretary – General Ban Ki-moon.

United Nations day is celebrated on the 24th of October every year. It is celebrated and highlighted each year to promote a common goal: To seek inspiration and opportunities to make a difference and aspire for a better humanity,for a better world.

Brief History:

United Nations has been founded way back October 24 1945 after world war 2 has ended. There were 51 committed countries that solemnly gathered in San Franscisco, US of A to take part in the launching of the Official United Nations’ Day. These 51 countries are committed to reach out and are pioneers for peacekeeping, peacebuilding, conflict prevention and humanitarian assistance.

The United Nations Charter has 4 main aims. Source

1.To keep peace throughout the world
2.To help nations work together to improve the lives of poor people, to conquer hunger, disease and illiteracy, and to encourage respect for each other’s rights and freedoms;
3.To develop friendly relations among nations;
4.To be a centre for harmonizing the actions of nations to achieve these goals.

How many of us is aware that there are people out there, countries, who are actually involved in trying to resolve international conflicts? How many of us care about the war in Syria? about the severe poverty in many countries in Asia, in Africa? about the abused women and children in the middle east? Soldiers and innocent civilians dying or risking their lives?

United Nations day will remind us that this is the time to think about human race as one and we are undivided regardless of our race, our color, our status in the society. This is the time to shake hands and salute to other flags. Because this is what being united is all about.

Last Friday 19th October, I had a privilege to join and celebrate the UN’s day with the rest of the world at Changchun American International School.
It was fun to check each nation station and see what they showcase that identify and represent their identity and reputation such as famous person, traditional costumes, local food, local products, their poetry, books and a lot more.

United Nations Day Meaningful Learning Objectives for our Kids

1. To be able to view this event as an opportunity to make friends with other nationalities regardless of race, color, language or status in the society.

2. To recognize differences in culture, customs and traditions, and make it as a turning point for welcoming new ideas and knowledge to cherish and respect.

3. To understand the morals and values we particularly believe in and how these influence our willingness to reach out and help others who are in desperate needs regardless of who we are.

 

Activities we can do with our kids to emphasize the event:

1. Flag painting

2. Making or writing a slogan

3. Role – playing

4. showcasing arts and crafts pertaining to UN’s day celebration (local and international)

5. showcasing national dances or songs

6. story telling

7. Essay writing

8. Parade

Photos:

 

There are still a lot more photos I took that day, but I can’t put everything here. :-) Thanks to all the parents, teachers, kids and students who participated in the event and also big credit to CAIS for hosting it. It was a great UN’s day!

 

 
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